I love to keep it happy and positive on this blog and I am going to say this, I don’t see this post as unpositive. I see it as being transparent. I have been kinda in a strange place lately. I haven’t been posting as much and I haven’t felt like I had the umph ya need to get things done. I felt like many of you may have been or are in a similar space, so I wanted to write this post and dedicate it to you and me.
Hey you and me, LOL ( I am still semi-ridiculous no matter how funky I feel). Its funny how being in funks work. Sometimes you want to do things, and more often you don’t. I will plan in my head what I am going to do and when that moment comes…lord, I just want to crawl up in the bed and turn my brain off. But I think it is important to say this…It is not bad or a failure if you don’t feel great and motivated every moment. It takes courage to try and it takes dedication to keep going. Some days you will be more motivated than others. Even if you can choose one thing to do and do that one thing well, you are still moving toward your goal. So don’t expect the moon from yourself at all times. Noone does everything perfectly. Even those who seem to have and be doing it all.
Give yourself some room to breathe, take a step back, write down two goals and work on those. If you can’t get yourself going to do it alone, reach out to a good friend that will help you get started and keep you accountable. After you get that groove going, you will feel like your old self but better. Because no matter how off you feel or how down you may feel now, be clear that feeling is not a fact. It is a feeling, and feelings fade away. Your rough and funky phase will fade away too. It just feels really bad when you are in the middle of it. It’s ok. Tomorrow is a new day.